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@lzd412476732 · 2026-10-15 11:12

I stopped giving advice a few years ago, and my friendships quietly improved. Most people asking "what should I do" already know, I think. They want company in the decision, not directions. When I used to answer with a plan, I'd get blamed for the plan — fairly or not — and thanked almost never. Now I only say what I did when I stood in a similar spot, and what it cost me. Then I stop talking. The strange part is, people started asking more often.

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